I’m flattered, but..
Strange things have been happening lately.. or actually, about a month ago, but I was way too swamped to be blogging about it. So it was mid August and I had to work pretty much full-time because my siblings were chilling in Spain and so was my dad. By the time my dad came back, my mum went to China for a reunion with her high school classmates. 3 weeks did I have to work my ass off during the holidays!
But that’s not what I wanted to talk about, it was about these strange things right? So I noticed I’ve been getting a lot of attention (or so it seems), but.. not from girls.. When I was working those 3 weeks, this guy came pretty much every day for take away, when usually he would just come bi-weekly. At Ikea’s too! I was just minding my own business, having dunch/linner when this guy sat down two tables over. When he sat down, we faced the same direction, but just before he did, he looked (or actually stared) at me for a few seconds and then smiled. Mind you, he wasn’t laughing at me, it was a polite yet flirty smile. When he sat down, he turned around to take another good look. Apparently one good look at me wasn’t satisfactory (a part of me wants to say BOOYEAH right now). Then his lady friend joined him at his table. I see them exchanging some words and then SHE TOO starts looking at me and smiles at me. For a minute there, I was like.. no, there must be someone sitting behind me. That didn’t seem to be the case though. Just to be sure, when I left, I told my friend that they’ve been looking and that she should keep an eye on them while I walk away.. Just to be sure they were looking at me and not her. And yup, she confirmed the fact it was me.
Now I don’t mind being looked at. Hell, I encourage it! Hehe, but seriously? Guys? Am I sending some kind of gay vibe? Cause let me get this gay.. er, I mean straight! I’m straight!
Something simliar once happened to me. First let me state two things about myself, I am extremely out going and friendly. Also I am a very traditionally macho guy, the least effeminate you get.
So I was taking this class, and I would hang out with this group of people. One of whom was gay. I have nothing against gay people, at all. Well there was a class presentation, and after I finished the guy slapped me on the ass.
The point of my story, people have crushes on people. No one can explain why, and feel lucky you weren’t slapped on the ass, lol.
Hahaha guess i SHOULD feel lucky then.. Your story kinda reminds me of Doug (Chandler’s boss; Friends). He isn’t gay or anything, he just has a fetish for butt slapping.
Anyway, I went to Ikea again last time and sat in the restaurant again.. No guys leering that day. Could’ve just been a temp thing. Maybe some kind of temp vibe I was sending out.
You must’ve nailed the presentation by the way.. I bet you had deserved that slap ;)
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